What all things must be there in a relationship? If you really value your relationship then you may have asked this question to yourself. There are many people who care a lot about their relationship and they want it to work well. But somewhere down the line turbulence come. They don’t want it in their relationship but they are helpless. In this article, I’ll try to help such people. What relationships need? Let’s find it out.
From Love To Devotion
For most of the people love starts in their heart and after some time it sinks down a foot. But the opposite needs to happen. It must rise up and improve the quality of your life. The only way to do is to convert your love into devotion. Let’s understand what devotion is through a story.
There is a very beautiful story about a 13th-century Sufi mystic. His name was Jalal ad-Din Muhammad Balki or more popularly known as Rumi. He converted his love into devotion. Nowadays he is becoming very famous especially in the west.
It once happens that Rumi fell in love. He went to his lover’s house and knocked the door. The lady asked who it is. Rumi replied it’s me Rumi. After this, no reply came from the lady. Rumi cried and begged to open the door but no reply came. This same thing went on for days. Rumi became very depressed. He decided to end his life. So he went to the mountains. He stayed there for a month or two. When he came back, he was a different person altogether.
Again he went to his lover’s house and knocked the door. The lady asked who it is. This time Rumi replied you and only you. Rumi is now nowhere. The gate opened and she called him inside.
In Sufi culture, god is always seen as a lover. The door is only opened for those who have lost all the identities about who they are or in other words it’s only opened for devotees.
When you love, you have to become nobody. If you remain somebody, then love never happens.
What Relationships Need?
You must make your partner a priority if you really want your relationship to be healthy. Focus on giving and bringing value to your partner’s life. If you really love them then you will definitely feel happy when you will see them grow and do well in their life.
On the other hand, if you will just expect endlessly from them then after some time it will become very ugly. Loving someone is not an extraction process. Love is about showing your sweetest part to someone.
The goal of LuvLeela is to make people see relationships as a means to express their joy and happiness instead of looking it as a means to extract something from somebody. If this will happen then this world will certainly become a better place to live.
Two Lives Can Become One
Some may think it is next to impossible.
Two lives can become one. It is not a rare happening.
Time in and time out it happens.
It is very easy to engulf one another whilst the play of chemistry.
Most of the people think it is just about being erotic.
It runs out with time. Not a reliable thing indeed.
The sand falls from the hand, not indicating the downward pull.
Rather trying to tell us about the impact of time in our life.
True love can pass the test of time.
Two lives can mingle and engulf each other as long as they breathe.
Stop worrying about the next life.
Try some variety because we all know how bad is monotony.
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