This article is on narcissistic personality disorder. In this article, I’ll make you see certain things which are price a person pays for being a narcissist. What are the pros and cons of being a narcissist?
Well, narcissistic behavior has only short term benefits. In the long term, there are no positives. A complete loss of peace and intentionally or unintentionally belittling the people who care about you are the things which you’ll harvest in the long term if you will sow the seeds of narcissistic behavior within yourself.
Narcissistic Personality disorder
A narcissist is a person who has a stone of a heart. He/she only cares about their goals or dreams. To realize their goals they can go to any extent. ‘Any extent’ means they can do things which can tatter humanity.
Another trait of a narcissist is he/she demands or expects a lot of attention, respect, and love from others. If someone doesn’t live up to their expectations then they create a very strong animosity for that person. In psychological jargon, this type of behavior is called narcissistic personality disorder.
In this article, I’ll talk about two very common catastrophes that hit a narcissist if he/she pushes his/her narcissistic behavior beyond a certain point. If you a narcissist then they will be eye-opening realizations for you.
If you’ll realize the price you have been paying for your narcissistic behavior then you’ll naturally strive to do whatever is needed to done to destroy those traits which are in you. I am assuming that you have this much sense. So let’s begin.
The art of sycophancy
When a person is full of himself/herself then he/she will take things for granted. They will not pay attention to the warnings from the people who are their true friends, who really want their good rather they will try to impress some folks, whom they think, their friendship can help them realize their goals.
After some time they will realize their mistakes but they realize after getting a hard hit from life. The people who cared about them had warned them but they ignored them.
Learning after getting a hard hit is a fool’s way of growing. If you’re intelligent then you must learn from other’s experience and wisdom. Only a fool will try to reinvent the wheel once again.
If you’ll pay attention to your life and do a retrospection then you will realize that more than 90% of the adversities that you have faced, you were aware of it before colliding with them head-on but you didn’t pay much attention to it. Your lack of attention and inaction made you collide with that problem.
People fail to pay attention to the warnings and ignore what was always in front of their eyes because they invest themselves in the wrong direction. If you are a narcissist then there is a lot of probability that you ignore the advice of people who want your good and try to impress people whom you think can benefit you.
Arms and ammunition
The narcissist only cares about his/her goal. Before aspiring for something it is very important that you have an understanding of all the dimensions related to it. People aspire for things without looking at the consequences it will have on them and the people around them.
For instance, the largest industry of the world is arms and ammunitions. This is how we have structured the world.
I am not saying that wealth is not important but the number one priority must be to provide fundamentals to each and every human being.
People have the goal of destroying the world. This is madness. A person or society who only focuses on wealth knows not what peace is. This is a fact.
A few days ago I wrote a poem by the title- Famished. I wrote that poem after seeing many hearts that are harder than diamonds.
Felt hunger, fortunately, I have means to quench it.
But unfortunately, there are many human beings who sleep without eating.
They have no means to quench their hunger because the privileged few are busy investing their lust and greed.
Let all the hardened hearts melt and become sensitive to the pain of the other human beings.
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This article was on narcissistic personality disorder. I have given you certain insights. Now it is up to you how you will respond to these realizations.
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