Almost every one of us wants to bring maturity in our life because as we grow we encounter lots of pain and sufferings which causes damage. Not all of us encounter this but nowadays almost every growing child encounters this which is very unfortunate.
Growing up is no more a fun thing. Nowadays a lot of people encounter a serious heartbreak at very young age. It can either become a curse or a boon in your life. It all depends on how you handle it.
How to bring maturity in life? We all want to know this simply because we don’t want to experience pain and turmoil again in our life.
No One Happens 100% The Way We Want Them To Happen
If you’re old enough then you might know that no one happens 100% the way we want them to happen. They may be our parents, ex, relatives, friends or anyone else. Nowadays even dogs do their own thing.
As people love their partner, friends and other people who are close to them they naturally start expecting something from them. As no one happens 100% the way we want them to, sometimes people fail to fulfill our expectations. It can cause a lot of suffering. The other person may not be aware that someone is expecting something from them. This is called a misunderstanding. Most the relationships face this problem at some point.
Love And Attachment Are Two Distinct Things
For most of the people, love and attachment are synonyms but I must tell you they are not. The word ‘Attachment’ means you expect something from someone or in other words you want to extract something from someone. It can never be called love. If the extraction is equal from both the sides then it may be called a successful transaction but it can never be called love.
The goal of Luvleela is to make people see relationships as a means of giving and expressing their joy and happiness instead of seeing it as a means to extract something from someone.
Love is when you’ve made someone else more important than you. It starts happening from the moment when you are willing to give yourself entirely to someone without asking anything in return.
How To Bring Maturity In Life?
Maturity means you are not dependent on anyone for your needs. You must become independent if you want others to call you a mature person. This will only happen when you will give some time to yourself on daily basis. You must plan your life. Think about all the aspects of life namely finance, relationships, career, family, friends, recreation etc.
Maturity will come when you will understand that no one happens 100% the way we want them to happen.
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