This is my first article on long distance relationship problems. I know a lot of people who are in long distance relationship but a very few of them hold on with their partner for long. Most of them are happy with their long distance relationship but the moment they find someone in their local area then for them the old game is over. This is because they want to start the new game.
Stop Mastering The Art Of Procrastination
A lot of my friends belong to affluent families. They think that they have no tension of their future so they party, smoke and drink recklessly.
Now the question is, are the people who wake up in the morning and end their day late are fools? They want to do something worthwhile in their life. Do you think they all are fools?
It doesn’t matter what excuses procrastinators or lazy people give themselves on daily basis. The truth is that the people who keep on wasting their precious time suffer immensely sooner or later.
They think everything is going great because they ignored their problems. This doesn’t mean their problems don’t exist. Ignorance intensifies their problems and hit them very hard one day. You might be thinking how ignoring our problem is related to our topic long distance relationship problems? They are directly related to each other.
Before It’s Too Late Do Something
People think that they have time but they are wrong. We have a very brief amount of time. A lot of people realize this fact when their adulthood starts going. One day suddenly people realize that they haven’t done anything in their life excluding dodging it.
A lot of people die a very horrible death, not because of any fatal disease or pain. They suffer a lot during their last phase of life because they realize that in their entire life span they procrastinated.
If someone cannot even die peacefully then I will call it a very unsuccessful life. Even if they have earned a lot of wealth, fame or respect. If they cannot even die gracefully then for me it is a big failure and a complete waste of life.
Long Distance Relationship Problems
A lot of people who are in long distance relationship don’t have any clarity when it comes to the future of their relationship.
In my book TRANSCEND COMPULSIVENESS, I have said that maintaining the direction of one’s life is very important. If your life is derailed then sooner or later you shall suffer. You can’t run away from it.
No one can have crystal clear vision of the future but every one of us can definitively know the path in which we must walk.
So you must find the path in which you must walk. You must do this much to yourself. Every one of us deserves to be happy and peaceful within him/her. Just find your path and give yourself a peace-assurance.
So if you are in a long distance relationship then you must have some clarity related to the future of your relationship. You must have some plan and this plan must have an agreement of both.
The Most Common Mistake
In my article top 5 reasons why a relationship fails I have said that one of the most common reasons why relationship fail is, people come in a relationship just for the sake of being in one.
If everyone around you is in a relationship then it doesn’t put any pressure on you to come in a relationship. It is your decision, not someone else’s. So stop yielding in front of peer-pressure.
An unhealthy relationship can do a lot of harm. The worst thing is it will waste your time and energy. You can use all that time and energy to do something productive and worthwhile.
I am not saying that you must not come in a relationship nor I am saying that you must break your relationship. It is your decision, not mines. I am saying this because I don’t want to take the responsibility of your actions or decisions.
With every action or decision come its consequences. So before doing something think about the consequences. Our topic of discussion was long distance relationship problems. In this article, I have just tried to give you my valuable insights which will help you change your life in a very positive way. Once again I repeat, the consequences that you will face will be the results of your action or decision. So choose wisely.
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