Many times in our life we are very excited about something. We really want to do something but suddenly something happens and we hold ourself back. We started thinking about each and every relationship in which we have been used again and again. We remind ourself about all the opportunities we failed to seize in our life. All these things seduce us to think I’m not good enough. This seduction holds us back and stops us from going after things and people which mean a lot to us. Before proceeding further I must tell you, PAST IS NEITHER EQUAL TO PRESENT NOR FUTURE.
In my previous article Why relationships become stagnant, I told that one of the reasons why relationships become stagnant is because people don’t focus on all the aspects of their life such as health, finance, career, family, recreation etc. This intensifies the problem which creates turmoil and their relationship also suffer the consequences of their ignorance.
Stop being ignorant otherwise, you’ll face the consequence. Here is an action plan which will help you stay away from the seduction of saying I’m not good enough:
- Give some time to yourself to decide what you want from life. Just ask yourself what all things you must have in your life which will make you feel complete.
- After that think about how you can get or achieve all these things.
- Make a plan, write it down and commit yourself to it.
- Start taking actions.
Straight To The Grave
A lot of people make plans but most of them face difficulties when it comes to execution. For a day or two they are excited but after that, they take things for granted and become lazy or in other words, I can say they become ignorant again.
The reason people come back to a place from where they started because they think they have time. Our physical body is mortal. It doesn’t matter how fanciful your thoughts are, the truth is our body is going straight to the grave. So don’t waste your time by being ignorant. Constantly do whatever it takes to keep yourself on track.
Remembering that I’ll be dead soon is the most important tool I’ve ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life. Because almost everything — all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure – these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important.
The Only Thing Which Matters
If you failed to take advantage of any opportunity in the past then I must tell you even the greatest of the greats has failed at some point in their life.
The only thing which separates greats from normal mediocre people is their integrity. They take full responsibility of their life without pointing fingers at others.
People may have done wrong to you but if you keep on pointing fingers then you’ll be a slave of your past and ignorance forever. The people who have risen above mediocrity are the people who take full responsibility for their life. They just focus on increasing their competence because, in the long run, it is the only thing which matters. It’s time to bring maturity in our life. So take full responsibility for your life and stop pointing fingers.
In my book Irresistible qualities which attract FEMININE, I have said that it is almost impossible to understand the feminine or females. It is hard for most of the people to understand her because they try to understand her through their logics. When it comes to love and feminine then our logic is no good because one plus one is not two here. One plus one is equal to one million. This book will tell you about four irresistible qualities which attract feminine.
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